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Enough is enough: I need a lil’ mpango wa kando

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Denzel Musumba

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I am a lady aged 24 and married to a man aged 33. We have been together for the last five years and have a daughter aged four. My dilemma is; I have never been sexually satisfied since I got married all those five years ago. I have never slept with any other man in my life because my husband married me a virgin, and I have remained faithful to him all through.. I have brought this issue to his attention several times, but he always gets worked up, and ends up telling me to go sleep with someone else if I feel he is not doing a good job. Some time back I suggested that he goes for a medical check-up, but he refused, saying I was the one who, in fact, needed medical help. I am now confused, and I think I should leave this man and look for someone who can take care of me and make me feel like a woman, otherwise I will be forced to have a mpango wa kando, which I know is very wrong. Please advise me because this problem is killing me softly.