YES! This is a blog. NO! Im not commiting adultry.  

Accusations, Accusations, Accusations. Accusations can kill a marriage. So when will it end? Why must we deal with accusations? Just because i have a blog and like to network I am accused of cheating or doing something that isnt right for our marriage. I dont understand. Arguments and painful words being shared between a husband and a wife. Day after day you pray that he doesnt take anything out of context, because you arnt doing anything wrong to YOUR knowledge, but i guess that doesnt matter at all. What do we do in that situation? Stop using the internet completly for blogging or networking purposes???? Why, what will that do. If a person insist on cheating they will do it no matter. I am a faithful wife that is slowly loosing hope. I dont want another man, nor do i want a side dish. I just want my husband and i to be happy. Sounds good but Like Usher said " It's like moving mountains " Ladies how can we assure our spouse that we are faithful? How do we prove to our spouse that just becuase we have a blog and network doesnt mean we are cheating. I sing, and that has been my dream for so long, Yes that Lord blessed us all with talents and im thankful for mine. I also love music and i am open to ideas that other have focusing on music but heaven forbid a male share the same interest. THAT DOESNT MEAN THAT I AM CHEATING. I know my limits and i also know that i took a vow, so why must it always be a battle? LADIES IF YA FEEL ME PLEASE COMMENT.