Dawn Watts  

If you've just broken up with your boyfriend or husband and are at the end of your rope trying to get him back you might be at the point where you would consider anything.  If you're asking the question:" Do I need free love spells to get him back?" then you really need to read the rest of this article.

Before you start dabbling in magic there might be a simpler and easier way to go.  Just communicating with him in a calm and rational manner might be all it will take.  At this point in the game an actual  'old fashioned' written letter sent in the mail might be a good way to let him know where you are coming from.

Texts are just too impersonal.  It's hard to truly explain how you feel with an electronic delivery system.  But sending a letter handwritten by you willl surely get his attention.

For the letter to be effective you have to make sure that you keep a few points in mind:

1) Don't be negative.  This isn't the time for guilt trips, venting  your anger, or whining about your broken heart.  This is the time to honestly own whatever part you played in the breakup of the relationship. 

Even if most of the blame is his you still had something that you did wrong and regret.  Explain why you did what you did.  Don't try to justify it, just explain what you were thinking at the time and why you took the actions you took.

2) Don't promise that you'll change.  You should be honest with yourself about anything that you need to work on but that's it.  You arn't going to change yourself and remake yourself for every boyfriend you have.  That's not healthy. But you can and should work on improving yourself.  And you can tell him what you plan to work on and why.

3)  Talk a little about your life now, without him.  Don't brag about a new guy and try to make him jealous and don't sound all down and whiny.  Just tell him something good.  Not all the details but  just enough to pique his curiosity.  Make sure you end your letter with something positive, something that reminds him of the wonderful, fun loving women he fell in love with. 

You don't have to resort to free love spells to get him back all you need to do is find a way to remind him of how great you are and how great the two of you used to be.  If you can do this and intrigue him all over again you will have a better chance of getting back with your ex.