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  Date / Time: 10/1/2009 7:21 PM UTC

  MESSAGE for STUDENTS:
  

  
  

  Motivation for Graduation: Persistence & Perserverance:

  
  More resources are available to students than they can even imagine. And I want to help them realize it sooner than later. During my high school years, I was an honor roll student. However, that all changed for me when I entered college. I was in and out of college for ten years due to various reasons. I learned lessons of persistence and perseverance during this time in my life.
  
  I made it thru my freshman and sophomore years alright. But, then as a 20 year old junior, my fiance broke off our engagement and I was devastated. I quit caring and skipped classes often. A close friend of mine suggested counseling. It turns out there counseling sessions available to students. I did eventually return home for awhile to put things into perspective. When I returned to school, I discovered I had a learning disability. I finally realized why it took me twice as long as the average student to study. I was able to take exams verbally and orally instead of written and read. Also, I took advantage of the study lab and tutors available in the Student Center. I had chronic fatigue and was able to have a classmate copy notes for me and receive a doctor's excuse note from the Health Center when needed.
  
  
  I have been reunited with my entire biological family and have had over twenty surgeries over the past decade. At age 24, my biological mother found me and I was diagnosed with endometriosis, just like she had - all within one week of November 1998. In Spring 1999, I attended individual as well as family group counseling sessions each week during that college semester.
  
  I recommend to all students to "get involved." Whether it's being in the band, sorority, fraternity, or housing group, find a club that fits you. And make a schedule. Schedule out study time. Schedule out social time. Make friends for life as well. I have a circle of ten friends that I've known for the past decade from my college days. We get together at least once or twice per month, when possible and we communicate more often by e-mail and phone. Create a support system within a circle of friends. Do not be afraid to speak to someone about issues going on in your life. Talk to your teacher, advisor, professor, or resident assistant. Let them know your concerns so that maybe he or she can help you and if they can't help you, then maybe they can locate resources and tools as well as someone else who can. Remember always to "Persist and "Persevere." Never give up until you receive your degree.
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
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