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Date / Time: 8/12/2008 3:06 PM UTC

CAN YOU PASS THE 'HO' TEST?

Good gracious alive, did I have a blast on my show with Deborrah Cooper a relationship expert, social researcher and author of Sucker-free Dating: How to avoid The Dumb, The Deceitful, The Dastardly, The Dysfunctional & The Deranged. We went in depth about the many wrong turns women and men make when searching for a mate or already in troubled relationships.

I shared my dating experiences with Deborrah and she really opened my eyes on the tricks, trades and tests of men today. One test that was an eye opener fro me was the 'Ho test!' Most men, in an efrfort to see where you are coming from as a woman will test you to see if you are actually the person that you say you are, or will do what you say you are going to do. Now a sista like me did not understand that this process was apart of the dating experience. So ladies, don't take offense when communications are rocky in the beginning, 9 times of 10 he is testing not just your limits, but your character, can you stand for who you say you are and do what you say your going to do, that should be your main concern.

To learn more about Deborrah Cooper, you can go to http://askheartbeat.com, the longest running African American dating and relationship advise on the web.

If you did not get a chance to tune into the show live, click here to listen to the recording, and don't forget to rate the show!

Blessings!
-K

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