Who is this Jesus, anyway?

Who is this Jesus, anyway? Is he God, the Son of God, both, neither? What does our answer to that queston say about our spirituality? Is there one right answer to that question? What about our relationship to or with Jesus? Is he our little buddy? Does he join us for Cheerios in the morning? Can we even speak about a personal relationship with Jesus the man, who dies two thousand years ago, or with Christ the Consciousness and Principal, or are those who believe such things just fooling themselves?