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We all know the InterNET is the "Tower of Babel" everyone speaking a different language..even when you try to help them to build they break-down even their own self.
"There are some lessons of life which you never want to learn because it will only make you become less than whom you know you are.'
..if it makes you less than whom you are, it's not a "lesson"...it is a "lessen"
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