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C.D. Madison is a Sex Educator and is one of the most diversely successful entrepreneurs today with her specialty store E Nella Borsa (www.enellaborsa.com) and the romance concierge and consulting sservice Pleasure Borsa (www.pleasureborsa.com) . She is returning to Blog Talk Radio with her show “Candy Shoppe Live”. Every Friday and Saturday afternoon, C.D. interview experts about relationships, novelties, movies, and more. She keeps her listeners laughing and learning with exciting interviews, lively call-in sessions and advice from someone who has been there and felt the joy and pain of the lack of romance in a relationship. If it matters to you C.D. can make you feel comfortable talking about it...
Date / Time: 7/31/2009 6:55 AM UTC
Almost every love story begins like a fairy tale. Relationship beginnings are always incredible and they can often experience a renaissance following wedding, honeymoon, or even a special anniversary. Couples often find that the love and romance becomes more of a challenge to keep alive when their lives evolve with jobs, children, and other life commitments. Sometimes love and romance can get lost in the shuffle of life. But the passion can be rekindled and kept alive by finding your inner hopeless romantic.
When it comes to igniting the passion, the best place to begin is at the beginning. Try to recall the things that you did for your companion at the beginning of your relationship. But, if you were never very romantic, don’t worry; it’s not too late. It’s not hard to find the romantic inside you and once you find it the ideas will come and the love will flow.
Often in new relationships, it’s the ‘little’ things that truly demonstrate love and romance. Try to remember romantic days like Valentine’s Day, anniversaries and even the date you met or your first date together. Try to send a small, meaningful gift or some flowers to celebrate your feelings for your companion. And this isn’t just advice for men! Women should do the same things for their men! Believe it or not, men love flowers and candy, too!
Writing your partner a long love letter describing how you feel for him or her is one of the most touching ways to generate romance. If writing isn’t your forte, make a list stating what you love the most about your partner. Letters and lists can name things they do to make you laugh, why you appreciate them, how they make you feel when you are with them, and how beautiful or handsome they are.
Call your partner during the day just to chat. If he or she isn’t doesn’t answer the phone, leave caring messages on their voice mail. You can even try talking dirty when you know that it is safe!
Gifts are often a surefire way to show someone that you love them. While classics like flowers, candy and fragrances almost always do the trick, other types of gifts can be just as effective. Treat your companion to a romantic dinner and movie. Bring home a bottle of champagne just because. Leave romantic and/or funny cards under the bed pillows or around the house for them to find.
These ideas are simple ways to get you started on the road romance and love in your marriage. You may have your own ideas eventually, and those will be truly personal. Once you open the door to love and romance in your marriage, you will find a renewed bond between you and your spouse, and a greater level of happiness.
Live, Love, Learn.
CD
Date / Time: 7/31/2009 6:50 AM UTC
Love and relationship based on love has many stages. The phase of romantic love does not last long. It is the most pleasant phase of the relationship and unfortunately, it passes very soon. The joy is short lived. After this phase comes the phase of mature understanding that may lead to lot of bickering and split amongst many. Why allow that phase to come at all. Or why let romantic love die at all? Can we not continue that phase forever? Let us find out.
In the phase of romantic love, the lovers feel very passionate about each other. They want to be together. They want to make each other happy. Their only objective is to enjoy the romance, send love notes to each other and enjoy the bliss of romance. After sometime, this phase passes away because of ego, relationship misunderstandings, expectations and other life problems that become more prominent. Can we not stretch the romantic love forever? Experience says that it is not possible, but some exceptions are there. Why not follow the exceptions? Let us see how.
Talk about this with your beloved in the beginning of the romantic phase. Tell them about how romantic love dies soon. Make a pact that says that let anything happen, we will not let any misunderstanding, any expectation or any other problem end the romantic love. Read the pact everyday and live by that. As soon as anything happens, remember the pact and go back to romantic love. I think that there is no other way of keeping romantic love alive forever. If you can manage that, your life will bean envy for everyone.
Date / Time: 7/31/2009 6:43 AM UTC
A man can easily learn how to be a good boyfriend. All it takes is a little bit of practice and determination to do it. Willingness is the key for any man to learn how to be a good boyfriend. Unfortunately not all men are willing to study and do what it takes to be a good boyfriend.
Most men foolishly adopt a ‘love me or leave me’ attitude wherein they are too stubborn to admit their shortcomings. These are usually the type of men that bank on the frailty of most women, the kind of women who would rather die than be left alone without a man.
However, men of this character must be living in the dark ages, as many women today would not tolerate this type of behavior. The modern woman of today is more discerning. Any man who would want to be in a relationship with her would certainly have to brush up on how to be a good boyfriend in order to keep her interested.
Fortunately there are still a lot of men who believe in giving their best in a relationship. These men take the initiative in learning how to be a good boyfriend to their significant other. And in the end reap the rewards of their labor with a loving and satisfying relationship.
Learning How to be a Good Boyfriend
Learning how to be a good boyfriend has a lot of advantages not just for women but also for men. A man that makes an effort to learn how to be a good boyfriend can look forward to a better and stronger relationship with their partner. An appreciative girlfriend will most likely shower her man with more love and affection than before. In addition, there will probably be less nagging that will surely be a welcome respite for any man.
However if a man still experiences the same type of treatment even after learning how to be a good boyfriend then there is something wrong. It would be a good idea to assess the relationship at this point. Perhaps the man is not to blame and the fault lies elsewhere.
Keep in mind that there are some women in the world that cannot be content unless they are nagging or criticizing something. At this point, a man may want to think if the relationship is still worth pursuing or if it would be time to move on and probably find someone who would appreciate them better.
A Guide on How to be a Good Boyfriend
A good boyfriend knows how to keep his girlfriend happy. Satisfying a woman is a comprehensive plan that does not only involve the sexual aspect of a relationship. A good way to do so is to make her feel special by complimenting her on how well she looks.
Women do their best to look pretty for their man and a little flattering remark goes a long way to show her that her efforts are appreciated. It is also a good idea for a man to evaluate his own physical appearance. As a woman takes the time to look good for her man therefore a man should also look good for his woman.
To show respect for her and her family is a trait of a good boyfriend that every man should adopt. A well-mannered man is polite and nice to his girlfriend’s family. Women are particularly appreciative of a man that accepts and loves her family. Communication is a vital part of every relationship. Women cherish a man who listens and pays attention to what they have to say.
There are no hard and fast rules on how to be a good boyfriend. And learning how to be a good boyfriend is not easy. The enthusiasm to learn must be present. It is also important to be comfortable and at ease with oneself when undertaking such an education.
Being true to oneself is an important part of the learning process. A man forced into learning how to be a good boyfriend can develop negative emotions that would not be healthy for the individual and for the relationship. If a man were not interested in learning then he would only be fooling himself and his partner.
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