Callywood After Dark Live Men are From Mar's

Broadcast in Pop Culture

Call in to speak with the host

(347) 637-3016

h:64632
s:1202949
archived
Callywood

Callywood

×  

Follow This Show

If you liked this show, you should follow Callywood.
Photobucket Men and women each monitor the amount of give and take in a relationship and if the balance becomes off and one person feels they have given more than they have been given to, resentment flu develops. This is a time when communication is very important to help bring the relationship back into balance. Example: A man might count a $200 present as 20 points and helping her to carry a heavy bag as 1 point (or he may not even assign any point to the latter), but a woman may count these acts as only 1 point each. For her, the total sum of points comes from different aspects. For example: - the different parts of the environment where the present is given each get 1 point (candles, music, privacy, location etc.) - the card gets 1 point, - flowers get 1 point, - if he tells her "I love you" in the morning it is 1 point, - if he sincerely takes a moment to notice her and tells her "You look beautiful" in the evening it is 1 point, - if he hugs her, it is 1 point, - the gift itself gets 1 point. Men and women are often surprised to find that, according to Gray, their scoring methods are different. Most men are not even aware that, according to Gray, all women "keep score"

Comments

 comments