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No Homo - The Auto L (oss)

Bobby V is just the latest episode of the black communities hyper concern with anything "gay". 



As a professional image consultant with years of experience working with men and women of all cultures I can honestly say that black men are the only ones that are overly concerned with looking homosexual.

No homo is slang phrase that is often thrown around "jokingly" by many black men whenever they do, say, or think they are doing anything, ANYTHING, that could possibly be perceived by any other black person as potentially being "gay".  Anywhere men gather and interact you can almost guarantee that at some point at least one guy will inject "gayness" into the discussion, but that's not the issue. The problem is that nearly 100% of the other men almost automatically as if on cue all cosign on this point with a strong chorus of Amazing "No Homo" Grace until everyone is reassured of their dominant manliness. 

Professionally speaking this is one of the most self destructive and automatically limiting beliefs and behaviors a person can have. I've witnessed black men proudly voluntarily seat themselves at the vs k of the bus because it's better to sit back there than to possibly be labeled. 

It's not hard to beat someone who's not playing the game at 100%. And the preoccupation of hyper masculinity has done far more to damage a man's potential than any lack of or "discrimination" could possibly accomplish. 

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