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Stop The Abuse
Current mood: sad
Category: Religion and Philosophy

It makes me sick to my stomach to hear about a woman being abused.

Matthew 11:28 says Come unto me all ye that labor and are heavy, and I will give you rest. This is for all women that are in abusinve marriages or relationships. Surrender yourself to God and he will give you rest.There is no need to carry all those burdens when God will do it for you. God is not pleased to see his queens in ituations such as this. We are his royal Queens and we are to be treated as such. You are more than conquerors.God does not  like to see his children stressed out, stressed out to the point of losing your mind. God wants you  to live in peace. God wants you to be blessed abundantlym he wants you to have everything your heart desires. God can't bless you when you are in that situation because you hinder what God is trying to do. Stop holding on to something that God is  trying to tear apart. God is telling you, the man is not for you. Leave him alone. But sometimes we woman dont listen.God gives you signs, God will even use people, but we still dont listen. We wait until something happens and then say I should have listened. But then its too late because we've gotten ourselves so deep and now its hard to get out. Man has put you down so much that you start to believe it. But Im here to tell you, you are not dumb, you are not stupid, you will amount to something and yes there is man that will love you and treat you the way youre suppose to be treated. For now that man is God. God will never put you down, God will never belittle you to make him feel better. God will love you to the fullest, God will give you everything your heart desires. Everything that you are looking for in a man is in God. You probably are saying how can you talk, you dont know. Well I do know. I lived it. I was abused emotionally, verbally, mentally and sexually. I was in an abusive marriage when i was 18. Been divorced for over 10 years. I married my 13 year old daughters father and he abused me. I gave my all to him and he wasnt appreciative. He made me quit my job because he thought I was cheating on him, when he did it. He physically beat me, and he raped me and actually admitted it. This man wanted me dead. he was plotting to kill me and take my daughter. He had a gun to do it but was to scared. This is what made me leave, one night after going to the store, I ran into him, he told me he had a surprise for me. I didnt know what to think or expect. He went home with me and I gave the bags i had to the people in the house, after doing that, he walked up to me and slapped me and i fell to the couch. Be fore he can continue to beat me, he was stopped. This is How good God is.I couldnt stop crying, my daughter being only a year old came to me and wiped my tears and told me everything was going to be ok. I know that was God. When she said that I dried my tears, kicked him out and the next day filed a restraining order. I realized I have to live for my daughter. I thank God that he used my daughter to speak to me. To let you know I was not saved.I divorce him. Few years later was in another relationship, turned abusive, but not physical, it was verbal and emotional abuse. I endured it for 7 years, Stupid me. I should have known the first time it started. But like we always say, he'll change, I love him. He never changed. When i moved he followed me. but when i turned 29 i gave my life to God. When I did that I sent him on his way. Not only that he had a baby with another woman and didnt tell me for a year. How about that. Even when I got saved I got into another relationship, he verbally abused me. I got tired and sent him on his way. I could not take it anymore, I cried and asked God why do I have to keep going through all this abuse from these men. Why cant I have a man that is gonna love me for me and not hurt me. God said to me its to make you stronger. You can take it. Now looking back I thank God i went through it because it has made me stronger and now I can help other woman that are in this situation. After all that I rededicated my life to God and now I am doing the work of the lord. Ladies, stop looking and let God bless you with your husband. Only he can bless you with that special man. But for now God is your father,husband, sister, brother, etc. Hes everything you want him to be. If you want God to take you out of your situation,1) start getting sick and tired. 2) if you're not saved, turn your life over to God.  3) Get yourself into a bible based Church. If you can't do it alone, Turn to your family members. Do not have doubt,put your trust in God. Proverbs 3:5,6 Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him. He shall direct thy  paths. Put all your trust in God. He will get you out.Believe it or not, even if you are not saved, God is there. I say that because you're still here.As Dorinda Clark says it, It's time for you to come out. Come out with your hands up.It's time to take back what the devil stole.  It's time for you to take a stand. Say ENOUGH IS ENOUGH, I AM NOT GONNA TAKE IT ANYMORE. The devil has had you long enough, Now turn to God. It's time to get what God has for you. As Dewayne Woods sings Let Go and Let God. I did it. You can to. If nobody has faith in you, I do. You can do it. Here is a little prayer for you.

Father in the name of Jesus, I come before you as humble as I know how. Father I  give you each and every woman that is being abused right now in this hour. Lord God I ask that you give them the strength to get out, Lord let them know that they are not alone, show them lord who you are, show them lord that there is more to life than just a man. show them that they dont need a man to make them feel good because they have you. You are their husbands, boyfriend, friend, anything they need you to be. Lord they dont need sex, you knowthat is not the answer. Father I asked that you clear their minds. The devil has had them long enough, now its time to get them back. DEVIL YOU TAKE YOUR HANDS OFF OF THESE WOMAN, YOU CANNOT HAVE THEM, I SPEAK TO THE ABUSE DEMON, I BIND YOU UP IN THE NAME OF JESUS AND SEND YOU BACK TO THE PITS OF HELL. YOU HAVE NO DOMINION OVER THESE WOMEN,  EVERY CHAIN ARE BROKEN, BONDAGE ARE BROKEN,NO MORE WILL THESE WOMEN HURT, IN JESUS MIGHTY NAME. HALLELUJAH!!! Thank you lord for the deliverance of these women. Thankyou lord for it is already done in Jesus name. WOMEN THANK GOD FOR YOUR DELIVERANCE!!!!