Ms HeartBeat

Date Smarter, Not Harder!


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Ms. HeartBeat (Deborrah Cooper), a social researcher, dating expert, author and advice columnist, serves as producer and host of The Date Smarter, Not Harder Relationships Talk Show. With almost 20 years of relationship industry experience, Ms. HeartBeat provides reliably witty, often hilarious and informative advice about modern dating issues. She is the author of the Top Black Books of 2007 Award Winning guide to modern dating: "Sucka Free Love - How to Avoid Dating The Dumb, The Deceitful, The Dastardly, The Dysfunctional & The Deranged", "24 Types of Suckas to Avoid" and "The Black Church...Where Women Pray and Men Prey!" Order your copies on Amazon.Com. Join Deborrah and exciting guests as they discuss a wide variety of relationships based subject matter on Sunday nights at 6:30 p.m. (PST).

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Have you noticed what I've noticed... that most black males are suffering from some form of SERIOUS mental illness? The vast numbers of those displaying behavioral traits of a sociopath is frightening. Others display the traits and... more

Black men lose their minds when a sistah says "I don't need a man!" All sorts of accusations about what is wrong with her are usually what follows - from being gay to carrying emotional baggage after being damaged in past relationships. I... more

No is a complete sentence in my book, one that establishes boundaries and places limits. Personally, "no!" is my favorite word! However, I've noticed over the years that many men don't want to hear "no!" from the mouths of women. Most... more

SUZANNE VENKER has written extensively about politics, parenting, and the influence of feminism on American society for more than a decade. Suzanne has appeared on The View, Fox & Friends, Fox's former Dayside with Linda Vester,... more

Thousands of American men can be found online railing against feminism and the modern American woman. Their chief complaints: (1) Western women have no concept of how to treat a man; (2) feminism has destroyed men and the family;... more

Discussion of women and the whole motherhood thing. Why are men so threatened by the woman that chooses to remain child free and unmarried? Why is she labeled selfish and not wife material? Why is society so focused on... more

Last week I posted one of what I call my PUBLIC SERVICE ANNOUNCEMENTS which stated PUBLIC SERVICE ANNOUNCEMENT #1507 This is a reminder to all Black women who find themselves on that "I'mma give a nigga a chance... more

All over the web, in book after book, and in women's magazines like Cosmo, Woman's Day, Essence, Ebony, and even teen magazines, are articles that tell females what they must do, say, wear and be like in order to "keep" their... more

Dating is horrible enough without people adding to the drama with ridiculous eye rolling behaviors, uncouth words, grossness, and inappropriate conversation. What would you say are some of the things that should not be said or done on... more

Dr. Alduan Tartt has a video on You Tube entitled Why Can't Successful Black Women Find a Black Man (follow up) which I suggest you watch before tonight's broadcast. We'll be going over the 7 points that HE says men are looking for in... more
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