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Ms HeartBeat

Date Smarter, Not Harder!


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Ms. HeartBeat (Deborrah Cooper), a social researcher, dating expert, author and advice columnist, serves as producer and host of The Date Smarter, Not Harder Relationships Talk Show. With almost 20 years of relationship industry experience, Ms. HeartBeat provides reliably witty, often hilarious and informative advice about modern dating issues. She is the author of the Top Black Books of 2007 Award Winning guide to modern dating: "Sucka Free Love - How to Avoid Dating The Dumb, The Deceitful, The Dastardly, The Dysfunctional & The Deranged", "24 Types of Suckas to Avoid" and "The Black Church...Where Women Pray and Men Prey!" Order your copies on Amazon.Com. Join Deborrah and exciting guests as they discuss a wide variety of relationships based subject matter on Sunday nights at 6:30 p.m. (PST).

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Karl "Antonio Love" Perkins spent months interviewing Sistas for this project, discussing their desires and relationship frustrations. Using his privy insight in conjunction with more than 3 years of research and observations about Black... more

Marie Forleo, author of "Make Every Man Want You: How To Be So Damn Irresistible You'll Barely Keep From Dating Yourself!" guests tonight. If you're not meeting the men you want, this book will show you why and what you can do to... more

Finding "hidden" bogus men is a formidable task, as many operate by stealth and emerge only when they can prey upon an unsuspecting woman. Are your relationships trying to tell you to wise up? Chip Bunch and Tony Lolas, Ph.D.,... more

Talking about a variety of issues with dating, love, marriage, cheating, games singles play, and relationships based subject matter including the book "How to Marry The Man You Want" a ditty from 1984 I found at a garage sale!

Best selling author Sherry Argov stops by to discuss the principles behind her books "Why Men Love Bitches" and "Why Men Marry Bitches." Sherry breaks down the principles of how men fall in love and stay in love. Her goal is to get... more

Open phones and open topic tonight! You call with your advice questions and get them answered live on the air. A few topics on the table that I want to address: why won't modern women cook for their men? Why do women love to snoop?... more

Special guest Pauline Edward will discuss how astrology and numerology can be used to guide you to the match of your dreams! Find out how it can work for you.

Every man tests every single woman he meets to see if she is a lady he can trust and give his heart to, or to see if she is a trifling, money grubbing, baby-making, sleep around 'ho. Tonight we'll discuss why men test women and the kinds of... more

A wide variety of topics discussed on dating, relationships, romance, and love. Cheating, accepting your mate for who and what he is, the games cheaters play, double standards, online dating, baby daddies, alcohol and its impact on... more

Do you think every guy you go out with may be "the one?" Do you hesitate to date more than one man because you think good girls shouldn't do such things? Do you sit around a lot, waiting for a fellow you aren't in a real relationship with... more
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