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Ms. HeartBeat (Deborrah Cooper), a relationship coach and the resident advice columnist of AskHeartBeat.Com, serves as host of Date Smarter, Not Harder! Sucka Free Dating Talk. With more than 18 years of relationship industry experience, Ms. HeartBeat provides reliably witty, often hilarious and informative advice about modern dating issues. She is the author of the Top Black Books of 2007 Award Winning guide to modern dating: "Sucka Free Love - How to Avoid Dating The Dumb, The Deceitful, The Dastardly, The Dysfunctional & The Deranged" which explains how YOU can avoid getting caught up with the suckas of the world. Order your copy on Amazon.Com or by calling 1-866-308-6235. Join in the discussion on a wide variety of relationships based subject matter Wednesday nights here on BlogTalkRadio!

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    Nice Guys - Why Are Nice Guys Losers in the Dating Game?

    Nice guys are confused about why they can't get the woman they want and why players get all the girls.

    This was the subject of discussion on March 19th on the Sucka Free Dating Talk Show. And I discovered some interesting facts as well as wildly negative perceptions of nice guys, especially by men!

    Nice guys were labeled as losers, social rejects, short, angry little dickheads with no skills, weak and effeminate. Nice guys are angry at players. But players understand women's needs and give them what they want, make them feel hot and sexy and womanly and attractive.

    Nice guys instead try to befriend women and approach in a way that makes a woman see him as a brother, not a lover. Nice guys also tended to be overly giving, supplicating, and much too agreeable which made women feel like they could walk all over him and he'd just lay there and take it.

    Women hate that kind of thing, and want a man to be strong - mentally, physically, and emotionally.

    Rom Wills, author of the book "Nice Guys and Players - Becoming The Man Women Want" concluded the interview with three action items for nice guys:
    1. Hit the gym and get your body into shape. Looking like a Tele-Tubby, soft and fat, or soft and skinny does not inspire lust in women. Muscle up and look manly!
    2. Learn to recognize when a woman is showing an interest in you. Women flirt in subtle ways and what players have over nice guys is the ability to pick up on that interest and exploit it!
    3. Respect yourself and feel that you have value. Stop putting yourself down and sucking up to women trying to get their approval all the time. Mental strength means you are confident and comfortable in your skin as a man, whether a particular woman wants you or not.
    Listen to the March 19th broadcast for the full story!


    Purchase Rom Wills' book Nice Guys and Players at http://www.ihbooks.com

    Purchase Deborrah Cooper's book Sucka Free Love on AskHeartBeat.Com

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