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Ms HeartBeat

Date Smarter, Not Harder Relationships Talk Show!


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Ms. HeartBeat (Deborrah Cooper), a social researcher, dating expert, author and advice columnist, serves as producer and host of The Date Smarter, Not Harder Relationships Talk Show. With almost 20 years of relationship industry experience, Ms. HeartBeat provides reliably witty, often hilarious and informative advice about modern dating issues. She is the author of the Top Black Books of 2007 Award Winning guide to modern dating: "Sucka Free Love - How to Avoid Dating The Dumb, The Deceitful, The Dastardly, The Dysfunctional & The Deranged", "24 Types of Suckas to Avoid" and "The Black Church...Where Women Pray and Men Prey!" Order your copies on Amazon.Com. Join Deborrah and exciting guests as they discuss a wide variety of relationships based subject matter on Sunday nights at 6:30 p.m. (PST).

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Discussion of the recent spate of women in the news that are accused of cutting off the genitals of their husbands. The news reports share the arrest information, but what we want to know is "what would motivate a woman to behave in such... more

Low desire is a common complaint of couples that report to have an otherwise wonderful relationship. What are some of the reasons that not wanting to have sex is a permanent state of being for many single adult men and women?... more

Women often hear that men are concerned with a woman's fertility and her ability to bear children, while excusing themselves from such limits due to men's ability to produce sperm well into their senior years. Both men and women have... more

For the past few years Black women and their singleness have been placed front and center in dozens of mainstream media outlets. From the NY Times and Washington Post newspapers, to CNN and Nightline - White people in the U.S.... more

Due to patriarchy all men are exactly the same. Some might be slightly more human and less broken and damaged than others. But this fact means that there is no such thing as a "good man." Men are all the same in their... more

As black women continue to rise in educational and professional accomplishments, they must battle the negative, destructive stereotypes portrayed in the media. What drives these myths and misconceptions? Why are black... more

Around the world men think they are really putting it down on women when in reality, men's lack of skills in the bedroom make women roll their eyes in frustration and avoid having sex. How can men be completely and utterly... more

Black men are big fans of the Biblical principle of female submission. However, they conveniently leave out the portion of the scripture that requires they humble and submit themselves to God and that they be married first. Why is it that a... more

Women complain that males lie a lot to them, about pretty much everything. We are going to sit down and hash out some of the most frequent and most damaging lies women are told by men. We will also discuss why women are lied to,... more

Some men are very quick to accuse women of smothering them or being too needy when what she is asking for is quality time and emotional intimacy. Can men really determine the difference between loving, caring and smothering? Do... more
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