"The more I gave in to his pleas to meet or talk with him, the more power he had over me, even though he made me believe I was the one in control." Stalking Survivor Dozens and dozens of unwanted phone calls/messages, letters - unwanted communication with the possibility of unwanted communication escalating to threats or even worse. A near constant - victims and their stalkers - they almost always know each other well. Trying to dissolve the relationship and one is unwilling to let go. That is stalking. The gut instincts that are trying to tell us must not be disregarded. For your safety in any type of crime we must pay attention to those instincts. Join Susan Murphy Milano and myself for her BTR show on Wednesday, May 6th from 4-5pm as we sit down together and discuss stalking and how you can protect yourself mentally, emotionally and ultimately physically if need be. See you on the radio. Take care and STAY SAFE!