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Stop blaming the word for being a doormat!

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Please oh please put down you violins!  the martyr status is played out and so are you!  If you feel that everyone is always taking advantage of you then do something about it!  Being a doormat is just as much a syndrome as being a user or moocher. It allows everyone to feel sorry for you all the while getting your story out that no one ever helps you or does for you but look at all you do for others... Please stop it...

Guess what if you are lookin for kudos, rewards or payback you are not going to get it. Being a doormat is simply a way of empowering yourself to disempower yourself.  Dont do for others to get thanks or acceptance do it for true generosity and if you can't then stop!

This show will be about how to stop being a doormat and start understanding what giving should be for and it is not for being taken advantage of.  Learn the difference.