Things that make you go hmm  

This is advice for the guys only. Girls who are reading this may need to step off and paint your nails or some utterly useless task of this nature. Ok they gone yet? good!

Any guy that tells me that they cant find a woman is either very picky or lives with their parents (in which case it's your own damn fault). I am not saying that it is always easy to find the woman of your dreams. it is highly unlikely that a 400lb man will find a 120lb woman who cant wait to jump that mountain (unlikely but not impossible). lets examine this:

would you prefer Z350 or Mustang?  a Miata or an Rx8? a  Expedition or a Denali? Now to every car you picked some one has picked the opposite of you. What you see as attractive some people see as ordinary or not attractive at all. the same can be said about womens choices. There are women skinny women out there who prefer men who are heavy fat and even very overweight. On the other scale their are women who you consider hideous who prefer guys who look like the queer guys at chippendales. Point being: THERE IS A GIRL OUT THEIR FOR YOU. Now i am not saying that your personality may not screw it all up for you ( that is a personal issue and i will not get into that right now). I am talking about you walking down the street and you passing by some girl that is looking at you  and you think  to yourself " oh .. hell no .. she's not into me she looks too good" get over that and take a chance. She could be your future wife .at best she may at least  pop your punkass man-cherry. besides whats the worst that can happen? she rejects you ( unless you are creepy then she may tazer you to the floor).

Side note: Rejection is something men deal with. Women dont deal with this because we are the ones sticking out our necks ( They understand rejection when we break up with them and they crubble like bricks).

Most important for men!! Find a woman you consider to be comfortable with at first glance. dont try for a woman who intimidates you immediately. Sharks smell blood in the water and they will attack DONT BE PREY BITCH!!! If a girl knows she has you she may not intentionally take advantage  but she knows in the back of her mind she always has a "get outta jail free" card.

To every girl their is a guy and vice versa. This is the natural order of things. Every guy doesnt want a super model ( have you seen VH1 lately? how do those women get in a car with butts that big??) And every woman doesnt want a Superman ( which really explains pauley shore). Just keep your eyes open or you will miss the boat.

 Remember one thing:

Woman are scared to death of rejection ( my point)  they will not come up to you. You have to make the first step!! Isnt that funny how you have to make the first move to a person who eventually can marry you and take everything you own without doing anything??

you sure you want a chick