What a Revolutionary Thought...Claiming you for yourself!

And don't you accuse me of compromise

Because this is the first day of the rest of my life

Today I married myself and I became my own wife

I used to give it away

I used to give it away

I used to live and breath and bleed for you everyday.

                                   Johnette Napolitano, Concrete Blonde

What an effin revolutionary statement! Me for me and not you.

Now, not selfishly, but a reclaimation. Hell, sometimes a reclaimation may have to involve a bit of selfishness to save oneself!