Danielle & Kadi  

Danielle and I met the most fascinating people on today's show! One of our new acquaintances is the world famous, Ja'son Manwill, Loveologist for Corporate America. We felt completely honored that "The Love Coach" thought us worthy to chat with about sex. Naturally, we had to schedule a show just to give Ja'son the opportunity to school us on the betterment of our sex lives er... professional lives.
Here is a bit about Ja'son and what he will be sharing with us tomorrow:

" I am the Loveologist for Corporate America.  I train and teach Information Publishers, Entrepreneurial CEO's and Corporate America How to Communicate More Effectively.

I also am the Corporate America Loveologist for Passionate Loving Intimacy, Inc.  You can find out more by going to our website at www.passionatelovingintimacy.com. where I teach and train married couples, rescue their relationships and Ignite Loving Desire.

In my coaching of thousands of students, I have found that how you are in the Boardroom is exactly how you are in the Bedroom.

There are many tips that will help people improve and they are quite simple.

Here is some topics I could talk and train about tomorrow:

-Aphrodisiacs: The Victorious Search For Pleasure
-Ingredients of Love: The Secret Ingredients to help you find Everlasting Love™.
-8 Words That Stop ALL Heated Arguments, and Improve Communication in Relationships™
-“From The Boardroom To The Bedroom™: How To Communicate More Effectively With Anyone in 30-60 Seconds™"

This is a show that will help us all have a more rounded and functional lifestyle, not to mention a better sex life!

When I was a teenager, my very favorite Hollywood figure was not Madonna or Drew Barrymore. It was Norma Jean Baker. I had numerous biographies, posters, movies and even a life sized cardboard stand up in my room. I was fascinated by this woman who, despite having rough personal life, captured the hearts of millions of people. The more I read about this woman, the more I loved her, pitied her and wished I could have known her. She led a tragic life, riddled with substance abuse and rejection. She never was able to have children, despite it being the very thing that her heart desired. My fascination with her was not about her dramatic personal life. It was her real beauty and the lesson I learned from her inability to love herself.

As a young woman, Norma Jean was stunning. She was sweet and radiated innocence. She was unashamed of her body. Her auburn curls, milky skin and curvy figure caught the eye of many. The photographers loved her and men fell hopelessly in love with her. Then...Hollywood got a hold of her and turned her into this woman:

Norma, known to her fans as Marilyn Monroe, plummeted after becoming famous. Her life was a whirlwind of drama and trying to find happiness, despite having everything a girl could seemingly want. Males worshipped her. Females longed to be her. Her beauty regimen became a mix of platinum hair, bedroom eyes and always trying to be a size smaller. Suddenly, the beauty she was born with, was no longer enough. Everything she did to improve herself was for Hollywood. She struggled to fit the mold that producers wanted her to. In the end, Norma Jean could no longer handle the pressure of trying to be the sex symbol that America wanted her to be. She never truly knew what it was like to look in the mirror and love the woman who stared back at her.

I wonder how different her life would have been if she had ever come across a place like this? A place where we strive to help women love themselves, regardless of size. A place where beauty is not limited to a size, a hair color or a nationality. I wonder how different she would have felt if somebody had just said, "You are beautiful and sexy without the bleach, the diet pills and the image of perfection." True, she never would have achieved the status that she did, but was it really worth it in the end? I was so sad when I came to the part of Norma Jean's biography when she died. I mourned the loss of Norma Jean. Despite what everyone says about her suspected murderer, in my mind, the one who really killed her was Marilyn Monroe.

Elton John states it succinctly in his song, "Candle In The Wind"

Goodbye Norma Jean

Though I never knew you at all

You had the grace to hold yourself

While those around you crawled

They crawled out of the woodwork

And they whispered into your brain

They set you on the treadmill

And they made you change your name

And it seems to me you lived your life

Like a candle in the wind

Never knowing who to cling to

When the rain set in

And I would have liked to have known you

But I was just a kid

Your candle burned out long before

Your legend ever did

Loneliness was tough

The toughest role you ever played

Hollywood created a superstar

And pain was the price you paid

Even when you died

Oh the press still hounded you

All the papers had to say

Was that Marilyn was found in the nude

Goodbye Norma Jean

From the young man in the 22nd row

Who sees you as something as more than sexual

More than just our Marilyn Monroe.