“Men are Jerks and Women are only for the money.” DrBev, What is a commitment phobic?

Round Table Discussion: Is he/she “Just not into Me” or does he/she have commitment phobia? thing. HOW TO SPOT A COMMITMENT PHOBIC BE4 HE/SHE BREAKS UR HEART: Commitment phobia is rooted in fear -- fear of lost options or fear of making poor decisions. Most especially, commitment phobia is the fear and avoidance of having to commit to anything, but especially relationships. And like the proverb, it's a double edged sword: on the one hand you avoid obligations, ties, and commitments yet at the same time the commitment phobic may secretly crave the lives of those who committed and the growth that those roots produced. Commitment phobics are the women who say, "All men are jerks," or the men who claim, "Women are only out to get my money" - rationalizations to justify avoiding a committed relationship. Men are generally considered more commitment-phobic than women, but recent research suggests that this might be a case of stereotyping, and that it is not necessarily a gender-specific. We will discuss Steve Harvey's new book "Act like a Lady & Think like a Man" check out his interview @ www.OPRAH.com