Judy H. Wright  

What constitutes respect? Do you have to like someone to be considerate, kind and courteous? How do you work in a relationship where there is an uneven balance of power? Several years ago there was a study done of 100 self made millionaires. They ranged in age from young 19 to well over 70. Their educational experiences extended from grade school to the Ph.D level. They differed in almost all characteristics, except they were all found to be respectful of other people. They had determined early in their careers that everyone had something to teach and to share. They built respectful relationships by learning from others. We tend to treat people like we see them. If we see them as arrogant, snooty or even shy, we tend to treat them in that manner. I just did a radio show recently about a second chance at making a good first impression. You will want to listen to that one, if you haven't already. Once you find the good or ability in other people you treat him or her better and thus they perform better. We all tend to live up to the expectations of other people. If we see people worthy of respect, then we will treat them that way. Even when they do not demonstrate their respect for us, we can still treat them with courtesy. A quote that I love says "If you take a man as he is, you make him worse than he was, but if you see him as being the best person possible, then he, in fact, become the best person possible." Encouragement is giving someone the courage to keep trying, to move forward and to fulfill their destiny. By giving respect and understanding to others in our relationship, we will all move forward. Be sure to go to http://www.artichokepress.com for a complete listing of books, reports, articles and videos by Judy H. Wright aka Auntie Artichoke You will also want to go to http://www.encourageselfconfidence.com for a workbook and bonus items that will assist you in building confidence in the future and courage today.

Are you nervous about social situations? When there is going to be people you do not know, how does your stomach or neck feel? Tight? If you feel that you are shy or suffer from social anxiety, this is the show for you. We will be talking about how to be more comfortable in social situations. We will also share about what makes a good listener and the five qualities to develop if you want popular. 1. Body language of acceptance 2. Ask questions and don't give advice 3. Never break a confidence or gossip about others 4. Complete the loop of conversation 5. Show appreciation and gratitude Join us as we discuss this 5 tips that will ease your social anxiety and help you to be more confident.

79% of people who are working would like to change jobs or start their own business, but are scared to death to make waves in today’s economy? Many of our adult children, their friends and many of our Baby Boomer friends are facing unemployment, layoffs, foreclosures and medical bills. No wonder their self- confidence stinks! They are anxious about the future. These are smart, educated and hard working people, just like you. They have been loyal, trust worthy and honest employees or business owners. But now are finding themselves nervous, shaky and self-doubting. I know they were feeling full of worry and fear, so I offered them a crash course in Building Self- Confidence. Soon, the word spread and I was getting lots of requests for the information. It seemed like everywhere I looked people were doubting their own abilities and falling into old patterns of negative thought patterns. Are you: • Concerned about what others think • Unsure of yourself • Anxious in social settings • Worried about the future • Afraid for your family • Concerned about your financial future • Nervous about starting something new • Timid and afraid to voice your opinion • Doubtful about your own abilities • Uneasy in your current situation • Apprehensive or fearful that something bad will happen Notice that people who who think and talk about finding a more satisfying career are much more likely to be doing it. This is called top of mind awareness and it moves us out of living in default by focusing on more of what we want in life. The universe rewards action. The minute we make a decision to move forward towards a goal, doors open up, hands are extended and we are guided to those who can help us. In this segment, I will teach how our subconsious beliefs may be keeping us from reaching our goals and desires. Join us today as we explore how positive action will always follow positive thoughts.

Pets are often our best friends. They can teach unconditional love, forgiveness and loyalty. Their love is not dependent on grades, promotions, soccer scores or appearances. Even if you were grouchy yesterday, they will forgive you.They tolerate your idiosyncrasies and put up with your moods. They are kind, loyal, funny and irreverent like you wish you could be in public. Pets are trusting, reliable, dependable, and love to play games, easily satisfied and make great listeners. All in all, pets are great friends and companions. So, what happens when your best friend becomes ill or dies? How do you heal from losing a pet? Join us on this show and find out. We invite you to go to http://www.deathofmypet.com for more information on a great eBook called "I Lost My Best Friend Today." Compiled stories, quotes and photos of humans and their best friends will warm your heart and give you guidance and support. We want you to become part of our "tribe" of animal lovers and kind people.

Ann Taylor, gifted healer will be my guest today. This will be an anniversary treat to mark one year of doing "Ask Auntie Artichoke" radio show. Ann started out in money management and moved to miracle manifesting. Two successful endeavors that have helped many people. It is your turn to ask Ann questions about healing either physical, spiritual or emotional concerns. Her website is http://innerhealing.com and you will find a variety of tele-seminars and products to help you face any problems or concerns you may be having. As usual, the recording of the interview will be kept up but we would like to have you join us in person by dialing 718-56-1463. Hope to see you Thursday and every Thursday for the next 100 years! Check out the new programs at http://www.ArtichokePress.com

What are attributes of strong women and the men who love them? How do we raise our daughters to be kind, thoughtful and respectful of all and still take care of themselves. I will be interviewing some women who have mentored and shared with me. These are women from my Sacred Journey group. Join us, you will be glad you did. Find out more at http://www.ArtichokePress.com and my two blogs; http://www.AskAuntieArtichoke.com http://www.IfDeathisNear.com